I’m, Virginia!

Holistic Marriage Coach

Helping overwhelmed women 25 + rebuild connection, trust, and emotional safety in their marriages — without losing themselves.

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  • Disappointed in how your marriage has turned out?

  • Do you still love one another?

  • Is it really him or me?

  • Is my husband really the one?

  • Would my kids be better off without us being married?

  • Should I get divorced/ is it an option?


Do you experience any of these challenges in your marriage?

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I was once where you are

Early in my marriage, I believed my husband was my biggest problem — even though, deep down, I knew something else was going on.

The truth is that my greatest struggle wasn’t my marriage or my partner.
It was my relationship with myself.

I was on the verge of walking away from a good man and a loving marriage because our relationship became a mirror — reflecting the emotional wounds, unmet needs, and patterns that still needed healing. Instead of seeing that mirror with compassion, I met it with shame and embarrassment.

Rather than facing what was surfacing within me, I turned outward. I blamed my husband, questioned the relationship, and seriously considered divorce — not because the marriage was broken, but because I didn’t yet know how to navigate the emotional healing it was inviting me into.

This experience is what led me to become a holistic marriage coach, helping women move through marriage struggles with self-awareness, emotional healing, and renewed connection — both within themselves and their relationships.

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About Virginia

Hi, I’m Virginia — a Holistic Marriage Coach

I believe healing doesn’t come from fixing yourself or changing your partner.
It comes from returning home to yourself.

Many of the women I work with come to marriage coaching feeling overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, or disconnected — both in their relationships and within themselves. They’ve tried doing more, being stronger, or holding everything together, hoping that effort alone would create closeness and fulfillment.

But emotional healing and lasting connection don’t come from pushing harder. They come from understanding your inner world, healing old patterns, and learning how to show up with clarity, compassion, and self-trust.

My work blends emotional awareness, nervous system regulation, and feminine embodiment — so change feels supportive, sustainable, and deeply personal.

Better Your Marriage Today

No pressure. Just a conversation.

  • Working with Virginia has been truly transformative. I never thought so much could happen over the course of a year. When I first started coaching with her, I wasn’t even aware of the areas I needed to grow—but Virginia’s incredible insight and genuine care guided me to discover and heal underlying wounds, some I knew I had and just thought I’d handled and others I did not realize I had buried away.

    —MF

  • Thanks to Virginia, I have grown in ways I never expected. I feel more confident, whole, and empowered to continue my journey—no longer needing external approval to know my worth. Her empathy, support, and unwavering presence have meant the world to me. I can’t recommend her enough to anyone seeking deep, meaningful change.”

    —Satisfied Client

  • Virginia provided a safe environment where I felt comfortable opening up about my past, my present situation and my dreams for the future. Our initial discussions focused on my life as it currently was in the moment, and then the magic really started when she dove deeper with me into my past. Throughout the whole journey, she set a precedent of respect, empathy and compassion - all the while giving me the necessary nudges to become a better version of myself.

    —CP